Adoption Update :)

Howdy y'all! I have had a busy day with Asher’s field trip this morning, but I wanted to go ahead and post a small update about the adoption process for those of you who are following along. All two of you. :) Ha, just kidding.

This is kind of a random thought that I’m throwing in for free, but just so you know, there is this little box on the bottom of each post that says, “Post a Comment.” It works and it doesn’t bite. Just sayin. Comments = Love in blog world. :)

Ok, so update... For those of you who haven’t read some of my other posts, we are adopting two little girls from [country in Asia]. 

We have settled on an agency. This was a pretty easy decision. We have some friends who are adopting from India through this agency, and I spoke to the director several weeks ago. I felt a peace about it from the first phone call. We will submit our application this week or next (although this really is just a formality). Our next real step with the agency is to complete a contract and throw down $7,250 on the table... sooooo that will probably be within the first quarter of 2013 unless God provides that chunk before then.

We will, however, begin our homestudy process through Lifeline Children Services in January if not before. We only need $1,150 in order to get that ball rolling, and this will be a 3-4 month process, so we are confident we will start this no later than the first couple of weeks in January. I think starting the homestudy will help me a lot with the anxiousness, because I will have something to work on. 

I spoke to a social worker in Georgia yesterday and asked her some questions about our house. We still live in the house we bought after we got married. We have had it on the market for over a year, but apparently God was not ready for us to sell, so it’s no longer listed. It’s a three bedroom and one bathroom house. Of course since our family will be growing by 50% our first thoughts were, “We need a bigger house!” and while we do want a bigger house, we can fit comfortably here and our mortgage payment is way less than rent, so we plan to stay until we are ready to buy or build another house. However, we were concerned putting the two girls in one room might be an issue during the homestudy, but the social worker said it was fine. That is great news since moving into a larger home before we start the homestudy would really delay the process and if we decided to move during or after the homestudy, that would also have negative effects. 

Lots of people have been asking how we plan to raise the  almost $40,000 we need to bring our girls home. Lance and I have talked a good deal about this over the last few weeks and there are about 4 different ways we anticipate using to raise our funds.

1. AdvoCare - Lance and I were introduced to AdvoCare in November of 2011 and it has changed our lives. AdvoCare is a 20 year old heath and wellness company, and it has helped us create a healthier lifestyle that has led to us losing a lot of weight. By simply helping others, AdvoCare has afforded us the opportunity for me to stay at home with our boys again. Lance and I also see it as an opportunity for us to earn large portions of the funds we need for our adoption. 
2. Kristian Ogden Photography - As some of you may know, I am a photographer and I’ve owned my own business for over five years now. In recent years, I have focused mainly on newborn and children portraiture. Beginning this October, I will begin a “digitals for donation” type structure of my business and all proceeds will of course go into our adoption fund. I will post a more specific blog about this with a link to my website probably this weekend. I’m hoping this will not only benefit us in helping bring our girls home but also be a blessing to other families in our community. 
3. Mountain Majesty Handcrafts - Apparently I’m just flat our artsy. Don’t hate! :) I also make jewelry, candles, soaps and other handmade gifts. Once I can get things established better, I will also start promoting these items and all proceeds will go to our adoption fund.
4. Grants - Once we finish our homestudy, we can begin applying for grants. Hopefully, since we will be adopting two children, we will be able to get some decent grant money. 

So that’s pretty much where we are right now. I guess that update wasn’t so short after all. 

If you choose to pray for our family, here are some things that you can pray for specifically:

-Pray that God strengthens our faith and gives us peace in trusting in his providence. 

-Pray that God provides the means.

-Pray that things go smoothly and without delay.

-Pray for the hearts of our extended family.

-Pray for our boys that God will begin to mold them into givers/servants and that they would be more grateful and less selfish.

-Pray for Lance and I to be unified throughout this process and for our love and grace for each other to grow.

-Pray for our girls, wherever and whoever they are. Pray for their protection, provision for them and comfort for them.

-Pray for the birth parents of our girls. Pray for God’s grace in their lives. 

-Most importantly, pray that God be glorified through this adoption.

Thank you for your prayers!

Until next time! -K

Take THAT @LL!!

Happy Wednesday Y'all! Let's call today Wash Wednesday, because today I am going to share with you how to wash your clothes for $0.01 a load!! Yep, you read right! It's the only thing that brings a smile to my face as tackle these:

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Notice how well I do at sorting like colors. And yes, those are IKEA bags! They make awesome laundry bags and they also allow me to dream of filling them with all kinds of inexpensive IKEA goodness while I actually fill them with stained shirts, ripped jeans, mismatched socks and little boy underwear (with skid marks).

Like my toenail polish? It's called Coral Stone.

About a year ago, I heard some of my super-mom friends talking about making their own laundry detergent. I thought, "Pshhhh, woman please! Just go pick yourself up some good stuff at the store and stop being Laura Ingalls!" For the record, I used to mock coupon queens the same way... and Little House on the Prairie used to be one of my favorite shows. Well friends, I have seen the light. I now make my own laundry detergent and (when I'm good) I coupon. While I'm at it, I will tell you I also make my own candles and my own soap. What's my motivation? First, price. I can't stand paying 10+ times more for something I could make myself. Second, enjoyment. I actually enjoy making these things. It gives me a sense of accomplishment! 

So let's get started so you can be well on your way to never ever buying a $12 container of laundry detergent again!

Here's what you need to pick up at the store or find in your cabinets:

Washing Soda

As you can see, I bought the Arm & Hammer Super Washing Soda. This can be found in the laundry aisle (I found mine at Wal-Mart, home of the devil). WASHING Soda folks! Not BAKING Soda! Washing Soda helps to remove dirt and odor from your clothes.

Borax Powder

I'm pretty sure this 20 Mule Team is the only brand of Borax you will find (Once I again, I found mine in the laundry aisle of Hades, aka Wal-Mart). This helps keep whites white and it also helps to make those little boy undies smell clean. Apparently you can use it for other stuff, too.

Fels-Naptha Soap

I guess this is basically old fashioned Shout. It's a hard bar of laundry soap that smells fresh and clean but a bit odd. You should be able to find this around the above items. Fels-Naptha also helps in the cleaning and stain removal process.

Irish Spring Soap (or whatever you prefer)

I've always liked the smell of Irish Spring, so I went with it. You can use Ivory or any of the other simple soaps. Of course this will be in the soap and body wash aisle. Don't forget to pick up deodorant while you're in that section, because I haven't figured out how to make that yet. :)

1 Gallon Container X2

I used Gatorade and a Hawaiian Punch containers. They are each a gallon and are reusable... and they cost me no extra money... and they would have just been thrown away. Hey, look at me saving the environment!! I think it's pretty obvious that you will use these to put your laundry detergent into.

That's it for stuff you need (other than water, a medium sauce pan and a stove/hotplate)! Now lets get down to business and start the process. Depending on how you grate your soap and how fast your stove heats up water, the entire process should take about 30-45 minutes. Trust me, the time is worth the savings!

Here are the amounts you will use of each of the above ingredients:

• 1/2 cup Washing Soda
• 1/2 cup Borax
• 1/4 bar Fels-Naptha Soap
• 1/2 bar Irish Spring Soap

Step #1

Grate 1/4 bar of Fels Naptha and 1/2 bar of Irish Spring into a medium sauce pan. The best way to do this is with a regular cheese grater or one that has a wheel that you turn. I couldn't find my grater (must be boxed away from our recent move), so I used a knife to slice off bits and pieces. I don't recommend doing it that way unless you have to. 

Step #2

Add 6 cups of water to the grated soap.

Heat on medium to high until the grated soap is completely melted. Try not to let it boil.

Step #3
Once the soap is melted, stir in 1/2 cup of Washing Soda and 1/2 cup of Borax. Keep the pan on the stove and stir until all powder is dissolved. This should thicken your mixture a good bit.


Step #4
Put 2 cups of hot water into each of your 1 gallon containers. Take your soap mixture off the stove. Slowly pour half into each container.


Step #5

Fill up the rest of the container with cool water. Replace cap and gently mix the gallons by turning them upside down a couple of times. Let the mixture sit for about 24 hours. Use 1/2 cup per load.


Your detergent should look like lime sherbet punch gone wrong. :)


















That's it!!! You're done!!! Now pat yourself on the back and go fetch the washboard. Kidding!

Just a heads up, your homemade laundry detergent will not be the same consistency as store-bought detergent, nor will it produce as many suds... that's perfectly okay. Your detergent might be kind of a thin gel and it might have some gel clumps, but rest assured it will clean your clothes just fine. Another thing you will notice is that your clothes will be pretty neutral smelling when they come out. If you would like your clothes to be more scented, then you will want to add some natural essential oils. You can find these online at various places or possibly in some local health food stores. I would probably go with Lavender. I've washed with this mixture for a while now, and I honestly can't tell a difference from the expensive stuff other than the smell.

Let's Do the Math
If you're like me, when I told you that I would show you how to wash your clothes for $0.01 a load you raised one eyebrow and said, "Yeah, right!" Well here's the math...

Using 1/2 cup per load, you will be able to get 64 loads out of this 2 gallon batch. 


The Washing Soda was $2.23 for 55oz. So, $2.23 divided by 55 = $0.04. I weighed 1/2 cup of Washing Soda and it was around 4.2oz. 4.2oz multiplied by $0.04 = $0.17.


The Borax was $3.27 for 76oz. $3.27 divided by 76 = $0.04. 1/2 cup of Borax weighs about 3.5oz. 3.4oz multiplied by $0.04 = $0.14


Fels-Naptha runs about $1.12 per bar. You use 1/4 bar, so $1.12 divided by 4 = $0.28


An 8 pack of Irish Spring was $4.27 making each bar $0.53. You will use 1/2 bar so $0.53 divided by 2 = $0.26


$0.17 + $0.14 + $0.28 + $0.26 = $0.85


$0.85 / 64 loads = $0.0132 or ONE CENT per load!!


You're welcome!

Whew! All that math wore me out! I sure hope this is useful for somebody! Now you too can smile while you dig the lent out of the trap because you know that lent cost you a heck of a lot less money!

Until next time! -K